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This week I want to talk about failing:
- Don’t fear failing
- Embrace Iteration
- Cultivate a Growth Mindset
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The reason is because most people view failing as a negative event. But once you understand it’s a natural part of the process, then you’ll be able to unlock your true potential and speed up your learning.
Failing: a normal part of life
Let’s dive in!
In order to rewire the way you think about failing, you first need to make sure you don’t make a few of the most common mistakes:
- Fear of Failing: This can hold you back from taking risks or pursuing meaningful goals.
- Giving Up After Failing: All successful people have experienced failing along the way and persistence is key.
- Blaming External Factors: Focusing solely on external events can prevent you from taking ownership of your actions.
The reason people tend to make these mistakes is because we’re taught from an early age that failing is unacceptable. And as a result, they keep themselves stuck inside a fixed mindset.
Here’s how to fix it:
Step 1) Don’t Fear Failing
The very first step to updating your views on failing is making sure it’s not an obstacle to success.
Learning requires you to fail and refine.
Most people don’t want to experience the tension of looking foolish, so they don’t try new things.
Instead, look at new learning opportunities as experiments.
For example, I’m learning new running drills and look like a clown when I try them for the first time.
Failing is a natural part of gaining new skills.
Step 2) Embrace Iteration
The next step to achieving your goals is embracing iteration.
Anything great in life is hard to get.
Most people only see the highlights of everyone else’s life on social media.
Instead, don’t forget that you need to practice and be persistent.
For example, I have an entire month of workouts planned, so I can achieve my physical fitness goals.
Fail fast and learn quickly.
Step 3) Cultivate a Growth Mindset
And finally, the last step to achieving your goals is cultivating a growth mindset.
Practicing and perfecting your craft takes time.
Most people believe talent and intelligence are fixed traits.
Instead, acknowledge that abilities can be cultivated through dedication and effort.
For example, learning how to be a better runner starts with believing you can do better.
Leveling up starts with believing it’s possible.
That’s it!
As always, thanks for reading.
Hit reply and let me know what you found most helpful this week—I’d love to hear from you!
See you next week,
Jake